A mere three years after the Toushner Reunion of September, 2009, we are coming together once again, journeying South to join Tim Armstrong in his Kentucky Mountain Camp. How reminiscent is
this of the summer CYO camps most of us worked at so long ago? This
time it is 50 years to the month since our earth-rumbling high-school
graduation. I, for one, didn't realize the significance of the
golden-ness of the occasion until later in the evening when Nims
mentions the half-century mile-stone.
Tom
Nimburger, the principal instigator of this gathering, Mike Conforte and Tony Touschner drove from Cleveland,
Amelio Ciccolini and I from Columbus and Jim Caughey from Florida.
We rendezvous at a nice hotel near the Interstate in KY, to refresh and
plan the remaining stages of the trek to Tim's hide-away. Tom has
thoughtfully provided a bounty of refreshments and appetizers. Tony,
ever true-to-form, grabs a cat nap, while the rest of us finish the
logistical planning and catch up on the current state of affairs. We plan rigorously but still find time for a little political sparring and gossip about those absent, as is our wont.
Those
still in harness we missed, but excused and saluted: Frs. Frank Kosem,
John Burkley, and Walt Jenne, as well as the late Frs. Norm Smith and
Dave Fallon. We also saluted the memories of Bob Biehl, Mike Reynolds, and Pat Murray.
Bob Casey had checked in by phone from Arizona so we were updated with his current family medical doctoring.
Tom Ribich has also recently been in touch but is in the process of
moving to Texas. Jim Richardson, seeking a brief respite from those
nasty Alaskan mosquitoes, is engaged in his usual summer bike adventure,
this time from Pittsburgh to Washington DC. Steve DeJohn had been
intending to join us, but as issues compounded themselves, withdrew
from the expedition.
Those
who have avoided or missed us for whatever reason, receive some little
scrutiny or benefit from our hypotheses as the circumstances warrant,
including Ron Clark, Tom Nowak, Dick Pepperney, and Emil Pustotnik. We
wonder "what ever happened to": Frank Eck, Pat Kaine, Bill Korinko,
Gerry Millett, John Moritz, Tom Murray, Joseph Rich, Tom Tomsik, and Joe
Zawaski. Ugh, shame on us, we have missed or lost track of the
majority. If any of you guys come across this, please give us a shout...
Dinner
was a low-key affair at a small restaurant across the way. A lovely
lady agreed to help with a group photo. The salad bar was wonderful, and
included edamame soy beans, one of my favorite vegetable addictions. Tony became perplexed by the amount of gluten he was ingesting from the graham cracker crust on his cheesecake. Apparently intellectual acumen is not always associated with an action orientation. Soon a knife was produced and Tony was guided into the process of slicing off the offending crust and peace was thereby restored. Libations or in my case a swim, were soon finishing off day
one of the celebration.
As
to the group at hand, currently: Nims is running a rehab consultancy.
Tony is still doing a little lawyering on behalf of Social Security
recipients. Mike Conforte is still working software wonders with state
and local governments while funding the acquisition of one of the former
Sandwich Islands. Jim Caughey is trying to wind down from doing cell
tower electronics and/or fire chiefing. Amelio is retired from the Ohio
sales tax, but busily keeping in touch with everyone and everything. And
your humble correspondent, trades index and stock options, being
retired from insurance and accounting for 11 years. As to the states of
our health, well, let's say we are all "just happy to be here and hope
we can continue to contribute."
Mid-morning
Saturday, after a memorable ride twisting through beautiful hills and
valleys, we finally arrived at Tim's mountain retreat. Never one to be
too lackadaisical, Tim has a security team in place that, after checking
our credentials, directed us to him. Tim had not yet arrived from the
recluse of his cabin, so we waited for him at a charming red picnic
table with umbrella. When Tim did arrive, soon after, we hugged and
greeted him as friend whom we had missed dearly for nearly these last
three years. He nearly kept his composure, and did seem to be genuinely
moved by our reunion efforts. Tim
chose to wear shades of forest-green and khaki, so closely he is
identifying with nature and the verdant Kentucky hillsides. His retreat
is working wonders for his health, as he has dropped about 25 pounds
from his previously average corpulence. Currently he grows delicious
tomatoes in his greenhouse on the hill, and his glowing tomato-like
countenance reflects how healthy it is to be engaged in such
agricultural avocations. What a shame it dosen't also retard
the onslaught of follicle degradation.
After
the Sun continued its climb, putting the picnic table in its strong
rays, we adjourn to the inner chamber, where we gather around a small
open space to continue our reminisces of the past and hopes for the
future. On the topic of health, Tim mentions the difficulty his cousin
Tom Whelan had in getting a proper diagnosis of his hip deterioration,
but once that was finally obtained and the hips replaced, he got a new
lease on life, and a huge improvement in its quality. Tim himself, works
constantly at staying healthy, because the remoteness to all but dental
health resources out there in Appalachia makes most medical access
quite inconvenient. We then take turns describing how magnificently
each of us are keeping our own states of health, or not so much as the
case may be. Then conversation takes on a life of its own, as two or
three streams of thought interweave themselves between and amongst our
participants. This continues for several hours, as we graze through a
light lunch provided there for our enjoyment.
Nimsy,
even takes time to educate me in the "undistributed middle term" of
Aristotelean logic, to the great satisfaction of all... Something about his table is not a tree, but might have been. Tim mentions how
some of his former partners and business associates have or have not yet
taken to camping as a means of self-improvement, and what it has meant
to those who have. As to what the future holds, Tim is looking forward
to an early and imminent departure from this camp, hopeful of completing
it before the end of the year. Following that he will undoubtedly want
to stay in touch with the camp counselors for a time. But in any event,
we should soon be having another reunion celebrating his return. And
that is something we can all be looking forward to...